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Fri, 25 May 2012 10:41:37 -0700

explore-blog: “I don’t think bubbles bursting are ever good...

Fri, 25 May 2012 10:32:01 -0700

“I don’t think bubbles bursting are ever good things – I think they’re inevitable things.”

Peter Thiel, who pays young entrepreneurs to drop out of college, on the higher education bubble on 60 Minutes.

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Fri, 25 May 2012 10:11:11 -0700

fred-wilson: Runaway (kanye cover) - Oberhofer i heard this on...

Fri, 25 May 2012 10:11:04 -0700

fred-wilson:

Runaway (kanye cover) - Oberhofer

i heard this on sirius xmu last week and bookmarked it in my mind to post today.

happy cover friday

The state of behavior change, and a new free app!

Thu, 24 May 2012 14:53:54 -0700

We’ve learned a lot about behavior change in the last 2 years. Here’s a bit of my current thinking on it all, and a new free app that you can print out and put in your wallet.

1) Which behavior should I change?

One that helps you learn the habit of changing habits (learn once, use forever). One that’s linked directly to something you desperately crave more of in your life (meaning you crave it on a subconscious level as much as a conscious one). One that’s about doing more of something rather than less than something. One that you can work towards every day. One that takes less than 5 minutes, and that you can do at the same time every day. One that you can enjoy in some way, or that makes you feel good about yourself even just for a few seconds.

2) How many habits should I try to change?

Only one at a time. Please trust me on this one. Stick with one, stick with it for 60 or even 90 days. Then, if you really want, start another. Life is long. Think of how many habits you can change with the tortoise strategy in a year verses how many you start and stop with the hare strategy. Every change creates an equal and opposite force of resistance to change. To keep resistance low, change slower than your excitement propels you to. Hold yourself back… it builds anticipation. If you don’t, excitement inevitably wears off, and resistance will chop you down when you’re weakest, putting you back to square one. One. Habit. At. A. Time. Aim for changes that stick a year, 3 years, or 10 years, and pace yourself accordingly.

3) What if I get distracted or sick or go on vacation?

Get in the habit of being easy on yourself. Break streaks. Don’t beat yourself up for missing a day. Think long term. Appreciate small steps towards progress. Forgive yourself for falling off the wagon. Just get back on when you’re feeling ready again. Give yourself a special day every month to restart anything that got stamped out over the last month. Put it on your calendar and set an alarm. Course correction is the most important meta-habit to cultivate, and often gets ignored in the presence of excitement and big promises and positive thinking. Expect and plan for failure, and have a plan for recovering from it.

4) iPhone app, Android app, pedometer, wrist band, or other?

It doesn’t matter. Paper works just as well.

On that note…

Here’s a paper app you can print out, fold up, and put in your wallet. It’s free! And it encapsulates the best thinking Amelia and I and many others (see Nick Crocker’s great recent article and Leo Baubata’s extensive work) have on the subject.

Give it a try. For extra points, print it out and take a cool picture of yourself with it and tag it #hipsterhabitapp on Instagram.

http://hipsterhabitapp.com/

"Every change creates an equal and opposite force of resistance to change. To keep resistance low,..."

Thu, 24 May 2012 14:37:51 -0700

“Every change creates an equal and opposite force of resistance to change. To keep resistance low, change slower than your excitement propels you to. Hold yourself back… it builds anticipation.”

- Buster Benson on behavior change and Habit Labs’ great new idea, the Hipster Habit App

Change slower than your excitement propels you to…this is hard advice to stick to, but so necessary. I’m going to be keeping it in my back pocket for a while, along with this piece of paper.

(via dianakimball)

Slow growth… build anticipation… something I’m learning as well. Love.

(via heyamberrae)

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Thu, 24 May 2012 14:22:55 -0700

"The antidote to exhaustion isn’t rest, it’s wholeheartedness."

Wed, 23 May 2012 17:41:38 -0700

“The antidote to exhaustion isn’t rest, it’s wholeheartedness.”

- David White

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Wed, 23 May 2012 00:28:02 -0700

Leap Pushing the Interaction Market Forward, Launching Later...

Tue, 22 May 2012 23:50:53 -0700

Leap Pushing the Interaction Market Forward, Launching Later This Year

brit: Strawberry. Cheesecake. Jello. Shots. ‘Nuff said.

Tue, 22 May 2012 15:55:47 -0700

brit:

Strawberry. Cheesecake. Jello. Shots. ‘Nuff said.

Ziplist Launches Netflix-like Queue for Meal Plannning

Tue, 22 May 2012 10:33:08 -0700

Ziplist Launches Netflix-like Queue for Meal Plannning

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Mon, 21 May 2012 22:39:00 -0700

betashop: Here’s the entire 17 minute interview with me at...

Mon, 21 May 2012 22:34:29 -0700

betashop:

Here’s the entire 17 minute interview with me at TechCrunch Disrupt today.

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Mon, 21 May 2012 22:32:49 -0700

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Mon, 21 May 2012 15:27:25 -0700

"To me, marketing is about values. This is a very complicated world, it’s a very noisy world,..."

Mon, 21 May 2012 15:25:34 -0700

“To me, marketing is about values. This is a very complicated world, it’s a very noisy world, and we’re not going to get a chance to get people to remember much about us. No company is. And so we have to be really clear on what we want them to know about us.”

- Steve Jobs

betashop: Video: We care more about making people smile than we...

Mon, 21 May 2012 12:16:08 -0700

betashop:

Video: We care more about making people smile than we do about making money. If we make people smile we’ll make lots of money over time.

tallgirltales: When in doubt, throw on some leopard print to...

Mon, 21 May 2012 11:55:59 -0700

tallgirltales:

When in doubt, throw on some leopard print to spruce up your ensemble. Get Olivia Palermo’s casual/chic look with this top, these jeans, these shoes & this bag.

bustr: (via Malfunctions in the hype machine. - Indexed) To put...

Mon, 21 May 2012 11:55:54 -0700

bustr:

(via Malfunctions in the hype machine. - Indexed)

To put this into practice, rate things both by your expectations going in, and your impression coming out. So, 5/5 would be the most difficult score to achieve… high expectations and those expectations were beat.

More common is a 5/2 or a 5/3, where you had high expectations and your expectations were met.

Lately, a lot of books and movies aim for low expectations and make up for it by beating them. See Game of Thrones, 50 Shades of Grey, etc.